Kelsey Parker reveals main source of guilt since Tom’s death – as she goes public with new man
KELSEY Parker has opened up about the guilt she has faced since her husband Tom Parker passed away two years ago.
The mum-of-two recently spoke out on the guilt she has faced since Tom, a member of Wanted tragically passed away from brain cancer.
It comes after the 33-year-old stepped out with her new romance, Will, a tree surgeon this week.
Speaking on the Made By Mammas podcast, Kelsey opened up about the difficulties she has faced becoming a widow.
Kelsey and Tom share two children together and admitted she felt guilt that the children weren’t growing up with their dad.
She said she spent a lot of time playing with her children, Aurelia and Bodhi, adding: “I really make time, because it is, for me, the spending them moments with my children, because I feel like they’ve missed out on certain things and I probably have that guilt.
“I think that’s a stage of grief as well that you have the guilt with Bodhi playing football, sitting down with Aurelia playing with dolls, they’ve missed out on their dad and having moments with their dad.”
The last time she appeared on the show was four years ago when Tom was going through his treatment – a time Kelsey says she ‘can’t remember.’
“I can’t remember anything, it was such an out of body experience,” she recalled.
“I wouldn’t wish this on anyone, it’s been so tough, but yet I’ve had the kids and they’ve got me through everything.”
The couple were together for 13 years before his tragic passing, and Kelsey says the experience of losing the love of her life has made her a completely different person.
“I’ve always been a positive person, but I think it’s changed my perspective and view on life now,” she added.
“I’m a bit more like ‘just go for it’ because obviously Tom has taught me you’ve only got one life.”
Kelsey, 33, recently revealed she was “in a better place” mentally now – and believed her new man Will was “sent” to her by the All Time Low hitmaker.
Kelsey recently opened up on why she has removed her wedding ring.
She told how it felt “really painful” to look down and see the band given to her by her late husband – prompting her to make the heartbreaking decision.
Kelsey and Tom's relationship timeline
Kelsey and Tom were together for 13 years and have two children together
2009: Kelsey Hardwick and Tom Parker first met. Tom Parker was a member of the British-Irish boy band The Wanted.
2011: Kelsey and Tom started dating. Their relationship grew stronger as Tom’s career with The Wanted progressed.
2016: Tom proposed to Kelsey in a romantic setting. The couple announced their engagement to the public.
2018: Tom and Kelsey got married on 14th July 2018 in a beautiful ceremony attended by family and friends.
2019: The couple welcomed their first child, a daughter named Aurelia Rose Parker, in July.
2020: In October, Tom Parker revealed that he had been diagnosed with an inoperable brain tumour. Kelsey stood by his side, providing support and strength.
2020: The Parkers welcomed their second child, a son named Bodhi Thomas Parker, in October.
2021-2022: Throughout Tom’s battle with cancer, Kelsey continued to support him and raise awareness about his condition.
2022: Tom Parker sadly passed away on 30th March 2022, after his courageous battle with brain cancer. Kelsey honoured his memory with heartfelt tributes and continued to share their love story with the public.
Kelsey Parker remains dedicated to keeping Tom’s memory alive and continues to be an inspiration to many for her strength and resilience.
She went Instagram official with the tree surgeon over the weekend.
Will has been a big part of Kelsey’s life over the past few months.
An insider said: “Will and Kelsey really hit if off earlier this year and he has been incredibly supportive of her.
“He helped her at a recent charity football match for Tom Parker and has attended other events with her.
“She hasn’t been shy about their romance and they pair looked very loved-up at a gala last week.”