My husband accuses me of cheating but I have never shown interest in another man
DEAR DEIDRE: ALTHOUGH I’ve never even looked at another man, my husband keeps accusing me of cheating.
He’s the love of my life but doesn’t believe it.
We’ve been married for 18 years. I’m 45 and he’s 46.
Until recently, we had no issues.
But suddenly if I so much as talk to another guy, even a male friend, he’s started flying off the handle.
He has always had female friends, and that’s fine with me.
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I’m beginning to feel like every move I make is put under a microscope.
It is pushing us apart. How do I get him to stop this?
MORE FROM DEAR DEIDRE
DEIDRE SAYS: He does sound very insecure and there must have been a trigger.
Perhaps he has had a work or health issue that made him anxious.
Ask him what has prompted this behaviour.
Say you love him, but be firm when it comes to stating your boundaries.
My support pack on Jealousy may help you both, as will Looking After Your Relationship.
Couples counselling may also benefit you.
Try tavistockrelationships.orgto get support.