When I found out my husband joined a sex site, you helped us through
DEAR DEIDRE: Discovering that my husband had joined a sex site shook me to the core, so I demanded a divorce.
While he denied talking to any women, I didn’t believe him – I had the screenshots to prove otherwise.
The betrayal cut deep – we have been together for 25 years. I’m 53 and my husband is 56.
He blamed me at first, saying I had stopped spending time with him after work. But how could I when I was exhausted from supporting a family of six?
He wanted me to forgive him and carry on like nothing had happened.
I thought I’d never be able to trust him again, but your guidance and understanding helped me see a path forward.
You encouraged me to communicate openly with my husband, and I’m grateful that he’s now agreed to seek therapy with me.
Although I know rebuilding what we had will take time, it’s a step in the right direction.
The resources you provided, especially the How Counselling Can Help support pack, showed me that speaking to a professional could genuinely help us.
You provided comfort when I felt I couldn’t go on.
Thank you, Deidre.
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DEIDRE SAYS: I’m so glad you have found a way forward together through open communication and therapy.
Good luck.
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