Walking date was developing but now my dog has died

DEAR DEIDRE: Walking regularly in the park near my home was the highlight of my day.

Then I started a friendship with another dog walker and began to have feelings for him.

I’d allowed myself to imagine he might actually like me.

But my dog was run over last week and I’m devastated. I’m really struggling without her but also missing my friend.

I’m a woman of 33 and I care for my dad who has multiple sclerosis. I never had any choice in the matter.

I have two brothers who were always brighter than me. They did well at school and both went to university, while I worked in a shop until Dad couldn’t manage. Then I gave it up to look after him.

My dog was my lifeline. She got me out of the house every day.

This man asked if I’d like to go for a drink but I didn’t have the courage to accept the invitation, instead saying I’d meet him for another walk.

Now my dog has suddenly passed away. I feel so miserable.

DEIDRE SAYS: It’s devastating to lose a pet.

Find emotional support through The Blue Cross (bluecross.org.uk, 0800 096 6606).

Friends are invaluable when you are grieving so go out for a walk as you planned (the exercise and fresh air will be good for you) until you meet this man again.

As a fellow dog-lover, he’ll understand you’re upset and perhaps you can continue to develop your friendship and walk his dog sometimes too.