My boyfriend berated me while I was dripping wet & reaching for a towel – he’s really angry about my ‘everything shower’
A FRUSTRATED woman has opened up about the fight she got into with her boyfriend post-shower.
She revealed that she got in hot water after taking an “everything shower.”
Redditor No_Sector_8740 shared the dating dilemma in a post.
“Am I the a**hole for taking a 26-minute shower?” she asked.
She explained that after she got out of the shower, she found her partner had “lost their s**t.”
“I am a female with longer, thicker hair, and I was doing what some refer to as a full body shower – washing, conditioning hair, shaving, washing my body and my face, and then I got out,” she explained.
“My partner said they were running the sink for as long as I was in the shower and asked if I noticed how much water was wasted then.”
The Redditor was confused by the act.
“I asked how I’d be able to hear that run while I was in the shower?” she said.
She was even more confused by his response.
“Exactly,” he said.
After adding up the duration of the music she listened to in the shower, she concluded that her shower time was a little under half an hour.
The Redditor, however, didn’t see the shower problem as a big deal.
“[There’s] two of us [at] home; we have two full bathrooms; he showered last night, and I showered this morning,” she said.
“We had no plans for the day. I take this length shower once every three to four days.
“I don’t shower every day (because I work from home), but if I do, I’m under ten minutes with body washed and hair shampooed for a regular wash.”
I asked how I’d be able to hear that run while I was in the shower?
Redditor No_Sector_8740
Worse, she explained that her partner caused her emotional anguish in their relationship.
“Naked, dripping wet, and shaking as I was berated while reaching for my towel. Damn,” she said.
“And yes to your assumption of usually a short shower (if I take one. I WFH and don’t shower that day if I didn’t do anything), everything shower once every three to four days.”
Viewers agreed that her boyfriend’s argument quickly fell apart.
“He thinks you’re the AH for wasting water but he kept the water running for the entire time?” said one commenter.
“Worst. Water. Policing. Ever.”
“I’m still confused as to how he thought that proved his point,” she agreed.
“Logic doesn’t appear to be his strong suit. Twenty six minutes goes by quick. It’s not like we can just get in, splash some water on us, and wash in seconds,” said another.
“Being someone with thick, long hair, who likes being clean-shaven, these things take time to do properly.”