I was slated for doing a DIY wedding in my local village hall but it was magical – and saved us £3k
A BRIDE has revealed how she DIY’ed her wedding by holding it in a village hall.
Laura admitted she “panicked a few times” over comments people made criticising her and her fiancé’s decision to opt against a “traditional” venue.
But they ended up saving themselves thousands, and had a “magical” day in the process.
Laura took to TikTok to share a look at her intimate nuptials, as she wrote over the top to reveal some of the remarks she’d received about choosing the village hall venue.
“It’s nice but a village hall isn’t really where I’d want my wedding. I’m not seeing it,” one person had said.
But Laura hit back, writing: “Trust me, when you surround yourself with the right people, who trust your vision and want only the best for you, magic happens!”
The video showed her and her friends setting up the hall, with long trestle tables topped with chiffon pieces and flowers in vases.
At one end of the hall was a huge floral arch, underneath which was a neon sign which spelled “Mr and Mrs”.
“TRUST. YOUR. GUT,” Laura added in the caption.
“I panicked a few times after a few comments over planning a DIY wedding in a village hall, but it was more magical than I could have ever asked for.
“Surround yourselves with the truest of people and you will thank yourself!!!”
Speaking to Fabulous Online, Laura estimated they spent around £10,000 on the entire wedding day.
While one venue they fell in love with wanted £3,500 for dry hire – so without any caterers or drink – they got the village hall for £500.
“Other ‘actual’ wedding venues we were viewing were £1,500 upwards, plus at least £75 a head for food,” Laura said.
“We couldn’t justify that amount for food that always leaves wedding guests hungry after an hour.”
So instead, they forked out £1,000 on a hot Caribbean buffet, and had a bar serving alcohol – both things the hall venue gave them the “freedom to do”.
For the total hire cost of the hall, as well as decking it out with flowers, tables, chair, and other decorations, they spent £3,500.
And people in the comments section were quick to praise Laura for arranging such a unique wedding.
Budget-Friendly Wedding Tips
PLANNING a wedding on a budget doesn't mean you have to sacrifice your dream day. Here are some tips to keep costs down while still creating a memorable celebration:
Set a Budget and Stick to It
- Determine your total budget early on and allocate funds to different aspects of the wedding.
- Track all expenses to avoid overspending.
Limit the Guest List
- Keep your guest list intimate to reduce costs on catering, venue, and other per-person expenses.
Choose an Affordable Venue
- Consider non-traditional venues like parks, community halls, or a family member’s backyard.
- Look for venues that allow you to bring your own vendors.
DIY Decorations
- Create your own centerpieces, bouquets, and other décor items.
- Use seasonal flowers and simple, elegant designs.
Opt for a Weekday or Off-Season Wedding
- Venues and vendors often offer discounts for weekday or off-season weddings.
Simplify the Menu
- Choose a buffet or family-style meal over a plated dinner.
- Limit the number of courses and opt for affordable, yet delicious options.
Borrow or Rent Attire
- Borrow wedding attire from friends or family, or rent dresses and suits.
- Look for sales or consider pre-owned wedding dresses.
Digital Invitations
- Send digital invitations instead of printed ones to save on printing and postage costs.
Hire a DJ or Create a Playlist
- Hire a DJ instead of a live band, or create your own playlist for the reception.
Simplify the Cake
- Opt for a small, simple cake for the ceremonial cutting and serve a sheet cake to guests.
By being mindful of these tips, you can create a beautiful and memorable wedding without breaking the bank. Remember, the focus should be on celebrating your love and commitment, not on how much you spend.
“Oh this is gorgeous!!” one wrote.
“More intimate and cosy, I love it!”
“Years ago lots of wedding receptions held in village halls and they were just as good as having them at a lavish, expensive venue,” another pointed out.
“We went to a wedding in a village hall this summer it was absolutely beautiful,” a third said.
“I work in hospitality & it was one of the nicest receptions I’d seen, and yours is just as beautiful!”
“I needed to see this today!” someone else praised.
“I’m two days away from our DIY village hall wedding.
“Tomorrow is set up day, this has silenced all the fears which have started to creep in.”
“You are going to have a blast!!” Laura replied.
“Highly recommend stopping the set up for an hour for a takeaway break with everyone.
“Please post pictures and have the most amazing weekend!!!!”