I want to take the plunge and be with a man – but I’m worried about what people will think

DEAR DEIDRE: I AM a man of 32 and I’ve only ever had one relationship, which was with a woman.

It lasted five years but, now that it is over, I would like to try dating a guy.

I worry that people will think I’m too old and having a crisis.

My ex was a family friend and everyone expected me to propose and settle down with her. But I started to find her really dull so we went our separate ways.

Now I feel that I am more drawn to men – or maybe I’m not, I really don’t know.

I guess I’m saying that I’m bi-curious.

However, if I were to take the plunge and go with a man, I don’t think it would be well received by my family.

Should I keep it to myself?

DEIDRE SAYS: You have the right to explore your own sexuality without having to share your experiences.

Many people question their sexuality later on in life – you are not alone.

Perhaps you will enjoy being with a man. You don’t know until you try.

My support pack called LGBT+ Support explains more.

Get out with your friends but worry less about finding somebody who is partner material and just enjoy the social side.

If you do opt for a same-sex relationship, you’ll find support through fflag.org.uk (0300 688 0368).

They will help you think about how to tell your friends and family that you are gay – if and when you decide that is the right thing to do.