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My boyfriend always ghosts me after an argument until I apologise, once it lasted a week

DEAR DEIDRE: WHENEVER I fall out with my boyfriend, he cuts off all contact until I apologise.

We’re both 20. It started just after we met.

We fell out over something stupid at college, and he ignored me for a week.

I thought he’d dumped me, but he messaged me again like nothing had happened.

Now he does it every time we disagree or I say something he doesn’t like.

My mum caught me crying about it, and she says it’s “stonewalling”.

Is it bad? Apart from this I’m really happy with our relationship.

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DEIDRE SAYS:  Stone-walling is when someone refuses to talk.
Stonewalling partners tend to use different methods: changing the subject, evading your questions, going silent or storming off.

But they’re all just ways of controlling you.

We often think of stone-walling as harmless but, in fact, it’s a form of emotional abuse.

My pack Abusive Partner? will help you work out what to do next.

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