I’m 21 & having sex with my pudgy bellied lecturer, 63 – my mates say I’m immoral & have daddy issues but we can’t stop
A WOMAN has revealed that she has been having sex with her university lecturer on a weekly basis – and her friends are calling her ‘disgustingly immoral’.
The 21-year-old explained that things all started when her 63-year-old lecturer would rest his hand on her knee.
Eventually, he then invited her to his home – and shortly after, they were doing the deed.
Keen to open up on the situation, the anonymous woman took to social media to share all.
Posting on Reddit, on the r/confession thread, the woman wrote under the username @Filthy_valedictorian and claimed that she felt ‘really conflicted’.
Sharing some context of the situation, she explained: “I eventually learned that he was single, and 63.
“Even with his silver hair and slight belly pudge, I found him very attractive.
“He was so wise and intelligent and offered such sound advice that I fell hard.
“He would squeeze my shoulders and rest his hand on my kneecap occasionally, and I fell even harder.
“Eventually he invited me to his home, a beautiful and spacious stone house, only minutes from the university.
“We both had an idea of what was in store, even though he was genuine and soft-spoken.”
And after multiple glasses of whisky, things soon went to the next level.
She admitted: “Long story short, after several glasses of Scotch and some small talk, we shed our clothes and had sex.
“I enjoyed it at first, but it wasn’t until it had started to be a weekly thing that I had begun to feel remorseful.”
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Eager for advice, the woman opened up to her friends about the situation, as she continued: “I ended up telling some close friends just to get it off of my chest (mind you, because I’m a loner I only have a handful of friends) and they all voiced how disgustingly immoral I was and that I had some serious ‘daddy issues’.
“I guess I’m here because I feel conflicted and wanted to just tell anyone who will listen, just to get it off my chest.
Even with his silver hair and slight belly pudge, I found him very attractive
Reddit poster
“I feel as if this professor is obsessed with the sex and we have it too often for it to be considered meaningful anymore.”
Unsure on what to do next, she confessed: “I understand his career is at stake if anyone finds out, but he doesn’t seem too concerned about the repercussions, even after we had discussed them.
“Thank you to whoever reads this, thank you for acknowledging my burden. It means a lot.”
Reddit users react
Reddit users were left open-mouthed by the young woman’s confession and many quickly flocked to the comments, eager to share their thoughts on the situation.
You probably wont have the same intentions, and it might not work right because of that, but that’s how life is.
Reddit user
One person said: “That is a terrible reaction from your friends. I personally believe that if you are attracted to this person and they make you happy, just enjoy it.”
Another added: “Grown people can do what they want. Seems like you are not letting yourself feel. You’re judging yourself through other people’s eyes. F**k that.”
Whilst a third commented: “People may be judgemental about this relationship but you are both adults, just very different ones, like having a relationship with a guy from a different country.
“You probably wont have the same intentions, and it might not work right because of that, but that’s how life is. An adventure.”