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This is how to deal with psychopaths and toxic people: 5 proven secrets

Filed under: Finance, Careers, Work Life

I know what some people are thinking: I'm never going to deal with psychopaths. This is just more sensational clickbait junk.

What Is A Psychopath?

Subclinical Psychopaths

How Do Psychopaths Get What They Want?

  1. They assess the utility, weaknesses and defenses of those around them,
  2. They manipulate others to bond with them and get what they want,
  3. They abandon their targets and move on... Or, in a corporate environment, often move up.

How To Identify A Psychopath

1) Don't.

2) Accept That Some People Are Just Bad News

3) Pay Attention To Actions, Not Words

4) Build Your Reputation And Relationships

5) Win-Win Agreements

Sum Up

  • Don't. 1) Run. 2) Are you sure you can't run?
  • Accept that some people are just bad news: A tiger is not a good house pet. And you will not change that fact.
  • Pay attention to actions, not words: No excuses. No BS. Use the "Rule of Threes."
  • Build your reputation and relationships: You need a good defense and good advice.
  • Win-win agreements: Make it easier to go through you than to destroy you.

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