Dear Abby: Husband wants long-lost sister to remain that way

Husband wants long-lost sister to remain that way Even if they never talk again, I think she deserved to know she had found him. [...] I feel guilty for going behind his back and meddling in things that aren’t my business. [...] I can’t imagine spending my whole life searching for a family member, when someone could have been honest with me and given me peace of mind. Did I make a terrible mistake, and should I come clean to my husband about what I did? Whether you made a terrible mistake remains to be seen. Am I being unreasonable saying that she should pay her own way if she moves out of the home? If anyone thinks that an attitude of entitlement is strictly a problem in the United States, your letter should banish that notion.